The rhythm & connection you have with a child is one-of-a-kind, and it starts from the beginning together.
Throughout the world and human history, caretakers have sung to their babies and rocked them to the beat, primarily to create the bond that allows the dependent infant to survive and thrive. This bond is based on RHYTHM & CONNECTION—that is, this rhythm and connection is a tool for the child's survival.
Hear that: the special rhythm you find to connect with your child—each individual child—is for the child to SURVIVE AND THRIVE.
It helps to know that the brain network responsible for perceiving rhythm (like feeling the beat in music), is also responsible for us synchronizing our bodies to the music, connecting to each other, and cooperating with each other.
So: Want cooperation from your child (or partner)? Come back to that rhythm, and keep building your connection. IT'S NOT TOO LATE—your brains are wired for it.
I’m here to help you.
Here’s one easy and reliable way to get back into that groove together—find a live music/arts performance, and go experience it together. Doesn’t matter if it’s at Lincoln Center or at your local farmer’s market… just choose some live music to hear together, and really take that moment to connect. The rhythm of the music will creep in, and remind you of the connection you share.
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